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3 Reasons Why You Might Have Trouble Making Decisions

Uncategorized Jan 14, 2020

THE 3 REASONS WHY YOU MIGHT HAVE TROUBLE MAKING DECISIONS

 Hi baby love! How are you on this fine Tuesday?

 

So I’m curious, do you have trouble making decisions? From the biggest things like whether or not to take a job to the smallest things like picking out your nail color?

 

I find that there’s 3 main reasons why decision making is hard…

 

  1. Your parent(s) were absent and you had to do things on your own and never really learned to trust yourself
  2. Your parents loved you so much that sometimes (all the time?) they didn’t give you autonomy over your own life
  3. Mistakes had big ramifications as a kid

 

Any of those relate?

 

If so, first of all know that you’re not alone in this my love. This is totally common and healable! Woo hoo!!

 

I’m deepening my self trust practice right now too and what I’m finding to be helpful is strengthening my integrity. Meaning, if I say I’m going to do something…following through with doing that thing. This builds up our internal confidence and trust in ourselves.

 

But I think it has to start with forgiveness first. We have to forgive ourselves for allll the times we’ve let ourselves down, haven’t followed through, or quit. Forgiveness allows us to let all of that go and start fresh with love and kindness.

 

Also choosing to trust the little hits I get throughout the day. We’re sooo intuitive, when you get that immediate download about something…that’s your intuition! For so long I’ve squashed that little voice and gone outside of myself instead. I’m shifting that this year and choosing to trust my inner knowing.

 

And lastly, changing the story that we’re not trustworthy. For so long I played the “I don’t know” card. And listen, there’s lots of things I don’t know! But my intuition is not one of them. Let’s not group our intuition into the “I don’t know” category. It’s so important to trust our inner knowing and look for support and guidance when needed.

 

I’m curious, are you 1, 2, or 3? Tell me below!

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