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A good coach vs. a GREAT coach

 

Hi beauty! 

How are you love? 

I'm posting this video because I think it's important. Something I see so often in the coaching industry is rushing our clients progress and transformation for the coaches ego. I don't think it's conscious, and I don't think it's intended to hurt anyone...but it's present.

Coaching is a unique industry because so much of our own shit can come into play. If the coach has a worthiness wound (and who doesn't!) then often times we'll project our own need for validation on the client. The client NEEDS to have a profound breakthrough, they NEED to wildly transform, they NEED to have a crazy up level. SO THAT the coach feels worthy and validated.

So often times coaches push their clients farther than the client can handle. Now listen, I definitely think there's a delicate balance of tender and nurturing but also not getting on the client's merry go round of bullshit...but the MOST healing thing in my opinion for a coach to do, is to help their clients recognize their own sovereignty. 

Meaning, the client ALWAYS knows best. The coach NEVER knows better and the coach should always follow the client's guidance as to how much they want to push themselves. 

It's actually not that helpful for the coach to push someone past their limits. We can of course encourage, and inspire, but it's SSOOOOOO much more healing for someone to go at their own pace. 

Check out this short video to hear more thoughts about this topic of what I believe truly makes a masterful coach. 

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